Eirinn, reviewing your husbands ability to access your devices is not a bad idea. I don't use my iPad for anything but work so not positive if you have to do anything more with that.
This weekend, I went back and reread your threads. I forget all the things I've forgotten. I just wanted to say that I love how you've adjusted your goals forward as you have been getting close to them and the way you have been focusing more on you and the kiddo.