My husband is in an affair with someone 1000 miles away, but who is from around here. Still has family here. Her husband knows. He wouldn't take the initiative to file for divorce. I filed for legal separation, he is looking for a place to live and we are talking about division of assets. I am sick to my stomach all the time.
I have been working on GAL and detaching. It's really hard because up until 2 months ago I thought my life was with him. I want him out of the house but also don't want to lose that final connection.
Today I ran across wedding and honeymoon photos and completely lost it.
My husband has been through a lot of loss and physical pain in the last few years. Has turned his back on God. He is very depressed. He stopped seeing his counselor. It's very hard not to watch him suffer and not help. Me: 53 H: 48 H has grown kids BD 6/25/15
Me53 H48 M 13 No children together BDMay '15 PA June '15 H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming
