Journaling: My WW texted me today around 1pm while I was meeting brother for lunch. Asked how my 10-year-old was doing, since she hadn't really seen him in almost 2 weeks. I replied he was fine. Then she mentioned picking him up after she got out of work at 3pm and spending some time together. I replied I thought it was a good idea and said I would have him ready.

So she stops by the house around 3:15pm and seemed overall in good spirits. It was the first time we had physically seen each other in almost a week. I was worried but overall the interaction went fine. We talked briefly about the kids, she asked if she could borrow some Motrin, as she was out, and I let her. I stayed very calm and disconnected the whole time. She mentioned something about how her and OM had been sleeping on recliners in the living room instead of the bed, due to how uncomfortable the bed was. No idea why she brought it up, but I didn't bite on the topic. She stayed around 10 minutes, then left with S10 to go grab a bite to eat and hang out for a while. Overall, I feel it went fine, and am glad to see we can be in the same room without glaring daggers at each other. I plan on being gone when she brings S10 back later - no reason to chance a bad encounter after a good one like this.


Me 47 W 42
T 24 yrs M 18 yrs
W living with OM
BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1)
BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out)
WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015.
Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.