I should also add for anyone following my drama, that my daughter has started to relapse again and I don't know what I am going to do if she gets out of control again. This is what caused H's original breakdown, and to be honest, I wasn't far behind him. Brought her to the dr today and yesterday and they changed her Rx starting today, she is now on Prozac. The other meds were not working and giving her heart palpitations. H has not asked about her appointment today and yesterday when I tried to tell him about her behavior over the weekend he got that panicky look and made a dismissive comment- don't remember what but something along the lines of "why are you telling me this". He cannot deal with her when she is losing it. (to be fair to him, it is hell, she gets agitated and can go on for hours at a time and lashes out at me and him.) So if she doesn't respond well to the prozac, there is a good chance that my marriage problems will be nothing compared to what comes next with her. This is so hard.
