My husband and I have been married 9 years and together 10. In 2012, he up and left one day while I was at work. He packed up all his belongings. When I finally talked to him, he said he wasn't happy. He had been talking to other women before he left me, which I found out about afterwards. He had planned on leaving me for one of them. We were separated for a month and a half. We worked it out and decided to get back together. I ended up getting pregnant and having a miscarriage about a month later. Everything was good in 2013. Of course, we had our little arguments. 2014, my husband got injured at work and they fired him the next day. Ever since then he has been in a depression, can't hold jobs, not happy with himself. All of this led to bigger arguments, yelling, cursing each other, etc. This past year, I found out he had still been talking to other women. I asked him to move out so he did. We agreed to work on our problems and seek marriage counseling. He was here again for a little over a month. almost 2 weeks ago, he packed up his stuff while I was at work and left. He never told me he was leaving nor why. I had to hear it from his mother. He couldn't stand all the fighting and arguing anymore. He has since then went on to make me the bad guy. He hasn't been happy in years, he has been depressed because of me. There was never anything good about our marriage. I was abusive. The list goes on and on. He bashes me every chance he can on facebook. He finally told me he didn't want to be with me anymore, he wanted a divorce and he is not in love with me. He said he would not go back to marriage counseling, and didn't want to. He said he didn't want to start over because he didn't want to be with me. He has then been telling others he loves me because I am the mother of his child but he is not in love with me anymore. Now all he is doing is searching for women on dating sites, especially the younger ones. He is 43 years old.
He is avoiding me, won't hardly talk, doesn't want to be around me. He has barely spoken to the kids. When he has talked to them, he only called because they asked him to. My daughter begged him to come see her Sunday, he said he could next sunday but didn't want to be around me or me go anywhere. This is absolutely crushing me. I can't wrap my head around why he is avoiding me and doesn't want to be around me.
