Couldn't agree with you more Jedi. What I was getting at was the observation that more seem to be accepting divorce as an inevitability than those who are making a success of applying, or continuing to apply the DB philosophy regardless of circumstance.

It seems that everyone agrees this is more the case and so it's good to understand where to position your mindset when reading the threads.

Understanding the "hive mind" when on a BB is necessary to ensure you get the most from it and can give back effectively too.


- Nobody has ever learnt anything important from happiness and success; problems make us grow
- Consult your plan, not your feelings
- If you haven't set goals, how can you expect to achieve anything?