XW's fog lifting, wants to work on fixing us

[gogofo]

Thanks guys.

On the XW front she has been reaching out to me.

On Sunday we went to the park with the boys is the morning before I had to go to a b-day party.

After that she asked to go to the park again with the boys and we were teaching them to ride their bikes together. We went back to her place and she cooked dinner and we put the kids down.

Last night before bed she sent a couple text messages to me before bedtime.

She is starting to show effort and I am not jumping all in with both feet like I did before. I hope I have learned my lesson about moving all in way too fast. She leaves for a wedding in Spain on Saturday for a week and I am taking the boys to California.

I will see if she continues to make an effort towards us. She did say that she missed and wanted "me" not just a good relationship. She also said we needed MC to do it as we both know we cannot go back into the same R.

Not sure how you go from being D to getting into MC but we will see how we progress to getting into MC; I'm trying not to push. She knows my terms, I am just not waiting and basing my actions on her.