25yearsmlc thank you once again for taking the time to help me everything you have said is being taken on board everything you have said so far has beenm. Spot on with regard to my M

It is almost like you have been watching what has been going on with my M

So just to clarify

Give her space
Stop persuing her (totally)

What about doing things together if she suggests to watch Tv or spending time together with the children

Are you saying I should not suggest watching Tv together we used to watch box sets and have loads lined up to watch

being ther for the kids is naturally good idea

Not backing off totally

What about doing things for her ...yesterday I cleaned her car

Part of me doing more arround the house is me doing the ironing ...I should keep doing her cloaths ?

Many thanks

gary


Me:48 W 41
M:18 T:26
2 D 18 & 4
2 S 17 & 13
Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation
D filed 06/17
Separate houses 10/17
D Final 29/12//17.