matt777. You are a good man. You worked hard to save your marriage and became a better person in the process.

Thank you for taking the time to share your insights and help so many others here.

Best of luck for the future. You deserve to live and to be loved. I am sure that will happen, one way or another.

R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together