Had a good day with my best mate yesterday. He needed help with getting song things done for his baby to arrive in a couple of weeks so the help beacon came my way. Spent the day building furnature etc. my reward? A fantastic dinner and I'm still here. Yes, a few pints were consumed. It was a brilliant laugh but I now have so much to do at home I don't know how I'm going to get it all done. Ah well, who cares Z9 is back with me tomorrow.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
I haven’t been on the board much this week, so I’m sorry if it seems like a life-time ago that I checked in with you.
It sounds like you had a good time last night: "Yes, a few pints were consumed. It was a brilliant laugh..." I am so happy to hear this. GOOD FOR YOU!
Anything else going on? I am going to a BBQ today.
Keep thinking positive thoughts, mate!
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
Hey Bob. Yea, it was a good laugh. Glad you are busy my friend. Hope the bbq is good.
What else is going on? At the moment not much. Just like you I'm keeping busy and looking forward. Gotta keep the GAL going, right?
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
Don't worry about me. I work in IT remember? Private browsing all the way.
Yes, everything stable. Had some weird interaction with the WW on Sunday but not much to write about. She's coming to the house later for some stuff so I'm making sure I'm not around.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
Well today marks what should be by 15th Anniversary. I fully appreciate how important NC is today, and I will stay dark all day.
I've been a bit down over the last couple of days knowing this was looming on the horizon. I thought I'd be ok. My detachment was going well. But there you go. You think you've nailed it only to realise that you haven't yet. Close but no cigar.
Thinking back on last year I made a bit of a mess of it. Just another line on her resentment list, pushing her closer to the OM and away from me.
Fortunately I have lots lined up for the next few days so I will be busy. But not tonight.
Have things improved with the WW? Not really. I still sense the anger in her. Meeting in a public place curtailed her enthusiasm for starting arguments. But I had to draw a line on Sunday when she wanted to go to the house for some stuff, meaning we would be alone in the house. At this point I cannot trust her to do this, and that's sad.
Anyway. Have a good day everyone.
Peace
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
I knew you were on GAL and hope you had a good time.
I'm fine. I got over myself quickly. Yes, it was hard keeping NC but I managed it and now today is just another day at the office.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
