Thanks RAI and Huddy for dropping by. I have absolute respect for Sandi and everyone on the boards. It means a lot, you guys are willing to take a moment out of your day to help me. I know this is a very long process and will take a long time to see results. I am in it for the long haul. It is still too early for me to lose hope. It took her months to plan this and follow through. It will take that long or much longer for her to change her mindset. I know I have to make her feel the loss. I am not doing that when I am pursuing her.


Last night, I was looking through her old laptop that she gave me and I found a link she had saved from Feb 2014. It was entitled "30 Days to a Better Husband". That stung a little bit. I hadn't realized our issues had stretched back that far. I thought maybe I saved it but I had no recollection of it. It had to have been her. I couldn't open the link or find it again. I wish I could have read it.

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Me: 33 W: 30
T - 12 M - 3
K - 0
BD - 6/14/15
Moved out - 6/14/15