I dont recall which page in DB/DR it is, but MWD explicitly says that there is no guarantee you'll save your M but that YOU will come out of the situation a better person while giving the best effort you can to save the M.
I know it's hard to grasp this initially, I was in the same boat. I thought for sure my sitch was not as bad as others, that I for sure would not be in this place for long. I was wrong, but having followed the processes here I've been able to honestly say I'm OK with where I am now.
I truly believe I would not be as emotionally stable as I am today had I not found this board, read the books, followed the process. I still have a ways to go, and plan to keep following the process because it works for me.
Do what you will, but I think you'll have a hard time finding a guaranteed process to save your M. It just doesn't exist, humans are too complex. Having said that, you'll find many people here who can attain that they came out of the fire a stronger, better person for having been here and followed the plan.
If you're willing, we're all are here to help you become a better you. You may save your M, you may not. But you will save you.
Me:36 W:30 M:2.75 T:7 BD: 4/2015 ILYBNILWY: 5/2015 W Moved Out: 5/2015 W filed for D: 7/2015
