Need advice for a WW who left

[dwh15]

Wow AJ, thanks for the reply, but you've been through this and your wife actually married the other dude? I've got to go read your thread now. Man, that is discouraging, but I suppose every situation can't end like a Disney movie. As I get further out, especially with the min contact, I do notice that the days are getting easier. For the first couple months, she had it made, with me acting like her BFF, giving her money, shoulder to cry on, etc. As soon as I rock the boat, she goes full force B##tch on Wheels. I'm sure she thinks she is punishing me with breaking off contact. We'll see how long it lasts. The reality is she did me a big favor, as I was stuck in Denial, still desperately hoping she would come to her senses any day and come back home. I can finally detach, and move on with my life, whatever that happens to look like. I still love her, and would like the chance to make it work, especially with 4 kids involved, but I don't want to put everything on hold for the next few years while she runs around acting like a crazy person. I really don't know if she's going to snap out of it, and looking back I can see signs of problems as long as 5 years ago, where she really transformed into a different person. Can somebody who's been lost for that long ever truly recover? Maybe, but I'm getting more skeptical by the day. Even WW's own family doesn't recognize her; they talk to me more often than her and all are pulling for me to get full custody of the kids. I'm going to spend the day with her sister this weekend. My family jokes that after a D, I'll be saying I won WW's family as part of the settlement. It's all just very sad.