Need to lighten my mood a little so thought I would share. So as I stated above we got into a fight. He tells me he wants me out cant stand me and the fighting blah blah blah. We have a garage that moms husband insulated and heated (not needed right now) that he lived in for a year while they worked on their marriage. He got home I asked if he could move his tools out of there. he asked y? I said D and I can live out there so I can save money we can come in and eat meals but I can get a Tv and fan and put a bed out there no problem. No different than living in the house. He looked at me funny and said no it wont all fit in regular garage. I then asked if he could make enough room for a twin bed and fan. I said since you dont want me in the house and I have no money to leave I can stay out there a few months and save all my paychecks and leave. His response: Its not that I mind you being in the house It is that I can not stand your attitude and our fighting.....Ok I can respect that I am sick of it too. But just an hour ago he wanted me out he didnt know if he should just throw my stuff out. UMMMM A little contradictory dont you think? This is the reason I do not believe him If he wanted me out that bad I would think he would agree to it as its insulated better than the house and someone else lived out there. Or he would say why dont you stop helping with bills here and start saving. He keeps saying he is just going to go get a loan and give me the money to go out. But again thats words not actions. PLUS we just ML yesterday I am sure he means all he says. He then also informes me I told OW's best friend (the mutual friend) I was going to outlast the OW. OK for one I said use ur head...why would I tell best friend of OW that I would know it would get back to you and OW...and my other thought (i did not tell him) was it would only make them fight harder for A. I was beginning to think he was out of the A fog and it was turning into a real relationship but now I am just not so sure. WHY WOULD I TELL OW BFF THAT???? He makes me crazy. So I would say his biggest complaint is my attitude and fighting...hmmm goal setting time!
