My boundaries in some areas were so weak, they were non existent. In others they were OK.

Mainly because I previous Rs I had been treated so decently I didn't need the so much. I think there are times they need to be stated.

If you cheat I am gone. It is my boundary but unstated, I am unsure if unstated it's weak or not. I will be stating this boundary if I need to.

But just recently that is the one that has kept me going NC. Risking my physical health with a fishwife, makes me feel quite unwell.

V

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW