Beagley, Thanks for the perspective. I agree with you that my sitch, and any other sitch, could turn at a moments notice. And I have continued to apply the DB principles. However, the inevitability I speak of is probably more of a psychological coping mechanism. Telling myself that D is inevitable is helping me get to the acceptance stage of grief. I need to convince myself that I will be just fine even if my marriage fails, as it clearly has up to this point.
But you are right, I could probably stand to learn a few more things from a DR reread.
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15
