Apologies for not responding sooner. I had my Pollyanna phase going on.
Yes, I think it's perusing, although next time you have admin you can mention it.
Others temp check generally because they like to keep their options option and you represent a resource. I long ago gave up worrying or even pondering why others do what they do. it makes sense to them.
Help, if charm is part of the package you offer to your partners then it's authentic for you, your W has thoughts of her own.
Can we explore the control issue? What were you reading and why did it resonate?
What does control mean to you?
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
