Matt,sorry your W feels as if you used this forum to manipulate her. I would hope from reading it she can see the love you have for your family and the changes you have made for yourself. What we go through is not easy and we need help to navigate this road we did not choose to start.
The good thing is, as far as you are concerned nothing changes. The focus has and always is to become the best Matt possible. Whatever your W chooses to do is her path and always has been.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be
