Maybe Matt777 is you could try to view this as her caring about what you think of her and only she knows who you really are, everyone else is unknown so there's a whole bunch of really great people out there who really want to help.
Ask her, can she honestly say that she hasn't discussed your sitch with anyone? Willing to bet I know the answer and each one of them knows you so will have formed an opinion that you have to face directly (not anonymously on a BB), so she's the guilty part, not you!
- Nobody has ever learnt anything important from happiness and success; problems make us grow - Consult your plan, not your feelings - If you haven't set goals, how can you expect to achieve anything?
