So wait, what are the statistics of DB working? I am confused. Does anyone know? I know 2 couples in real life who went from "ILYBINILWY" and EA's to "happily married" with regular counseling. People don't usually discuss this so there could be more out there. I know lots of divorced people, don't know if they went to MC or did DB or not, because again, people don't usually discuss this.
Then there are variables, personality differences, EA's vs PA's, (not sure if it makes a difference), other marital issues, religious views, etc. IDK if there is a way to measure.
DB makes sense for me right now and is working , but slowly, so I am going to keep it up. I also agree that people might not post when things improve, I know things for me are pretty bad but even so I feel "guilty" posting that we are still having sex or that we are going out for dinner, because it sounds better than what a lot of people are dealing with.
