There is probably a bias in the BB as well. The people whose R are in the worst shape (mine included) are going to frequent the BB (read: need support) more often than the people for whom DB has worked very effectively.

Bottom line, no one is forcing anyone to apply these strategies. If they make sense to you, then try them. If they don't, there are certainly many other web sites/books/therapies to try.

Did you check out Mozza's thread?

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