ralphy, so you seem to be saying that because human's typically report the negative and keep the positive to themselves (for fear of being considered smug, or they jump off the DB path as they think they are "sorted") that actually the number who do reconcile is higher than might be construed through looking at the general thread of stories? Which, if true is very encouraging, in some ways, it's those who keep up the DB ethics that really succeed.


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