Be careful about the second marriage statistic. Cause if I was a betting person I would say 99% of marriages that started as affairs would fail, so maybe that really skews your second marriage statistic.
It's not my statistic it's one often quoted everywhere and referenced in the DR book.
Also I wasn't thinking of my W chances of being successful with marrying the OM, I was thinking of me and all the others who end up succumbing to (or accepting as the easy option) a D.
- Nobody has ever learnt anything important from happiness and success; problems make us grow - Consult your plan, not your feelings - If you haven't set goals, how can you expect to achieve anything?
