Doesn't that fly in the face of what DB stands for? The DR book gives you hope that a D can be avoided yet the reality is that you need to come to terms with a D and move on as a better human being knowing that the chances of a successful second marriage are even less than first time round.
Be careful about the second marriage statistic. Cause if I was a betting person I would say 99% of marriages that started as affairs would fail, so maybe that really skews your second marriage statistic.
It think all we can do is control our 50% of any relationship and be the best that we can be and then we are likely to be 100% successful no matter what.
