I think you are right that more end up divorcing. You are also correct that whether the M survives or not, someone who applies the DB principles faithfully will emerge a better person. Furthermore, for those of us who expect the re-marry there are valuable lessons to be found in this BB. Whatever the outcome in my sitch - I am almost 100% certain that will be D - I will continue to frequent this board for support and also to pay it forward. Therefore, I think you have to reframe your expectations.

Good luck,

RAI

P.S. Mr. Negative smile , Mozza actually has a nice list of success stories. Check out his threads.

Last edited by RAI; 07/20/15 08:30 PM.
Me 48 XW 45
lots o' kids
D April 2017