Good points. It would be a lifes work to go about monitoring spouses and to not trust their motivations. I agree that she chose to work on the marriage and you just have to go with it.
I continue to keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
I am glad to be back at work and to focus my mind on it. It feels good. Being away for a while makes coming back to work all the more fulfilling.
I still think way oo much about W way too much. So hard to break that habit and reliance. Working on it.