more independant more self respect realize the situation is not my fault am a better mother am a better listener have gotten closer to God have made "me" friends
That's just a few of the new me changes. But yes, internal growth has emerged .... surprise surprise. I would have sworn months ago that this was just not possible. But it is. Working the plan, accepting that we all have no control over others, realizing what baggage we have. All of that insight. How I only wish I knew all of this before BD.