When she is nice to me, I always feel like she wants something. Today it was the A/C unit. I always try ti remember that she was and still is carrying on an affair outside our marriage and that she has fired me as her H.
Sad to say, there's a lot of truth in that, when dealing with a WW. WW's are manipulative and extremely self-centered. Everything is about their feelings. It can even come before the needs of their children.
There will be several things to crop up that she didn't think about when she gave the BD.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
