I have. I know this is divorce busting but I also realized that I am not going to wait forever.
I have gotten out and I have met a few people one that in particular that is a friend for now. I am getting stronger and more independent every day. I know now that I deserve to be treated with respect and kindness as I would do for H. I have learned some things along the way mainly that people can be independent and married at the same time but you also need to do things together which H didn't and doesn't want to do.
There has been no change really in our R and no I don't ask. Some days it seems a tiny better and then H will go 3-5 days and no contact. I am still trying to hang in there but I am not obsessing about it anymore. I am having some fun.
