I am trying so hard to be firm but not cold. Its hard when most of our contact it by text and intermittent at best. When we are face to face I always wear my PMA face and stay nice. I really didnt peel out of the driveway or leave any faster than normal to be honest. I just couldnt wait to get out of there.
When she is nice to me, I always feel like she wants something. Today it was the A/C unit. I always try ti remember that she was and still is carrying on an affair outside our marriage and that she has fired me as her H.
I dont want to enable her by "spotting" her bill money, or letting it slide by when we have an agreement......she can continue to drive the car as long as she continues to pay the insurance. So when I am a nice guy, i become a doormat. Like you said.....delicate balance.
Thanks for the input my friend.
Last edited by HurtJef; 07/20/1506:28 PM.
T14 M5 SD15,D8,S6,D3 "Not Happy" 12/11/14 EA discovered 2/11/15 MC started 2/17/15 MC "put on hold" 4/3/15 W IC started 4/5/15 PA admitted 5/7/15 WW moves out 5/8/15 WW gets her own place 7/15/15