I Lifted this quote from Mozza, posting in Raliced's thread. Hope you both don't mind. It was just so a propos and really speaks to me right now.
Originally Posted By: Mozza
I find your anger interesting. I had moments of anger earlier, a few months after BD, and I decided to feel them. I never took them out on WW, but I would not feel guilty for being angry at her. In fact, it helped me greatly to feel a little better and was likely instrumental in getting me to a better place each time. I encourage you of thinking about where this anger comes from inside of you and that might be triggered by the recent events.
The only difference is I am a few years after BD. In fact, tomorrow will be exactly 1 year from BD #2. I have not thought about it much. A day like any other I suppose. I am annoyed by the fact that every time I think I will feel detachment or attain closure, something happens and detachment and closure are further away, again. After BD #2, where I found WW crouching in the back seat of OM's car, coming out of his house, I thought to myself, "this is the closure I needed". But it was not enough. I continued to pursue and spy and basically not detach. Then I found DB. Next month I will be two years into my sitch (BD #1 was in August 2013). Ugghhh. I am not sure how different I am from 2 years ago. Am I really rising above it?
