I am back for more. Here is a brief recap of where I stand. WW still involved with OM. I am dropping the rope and actively moving towards D. I am currently trying to balance living under same roof with WW, having five wonderful children who need my attention and the best PMA possible, a full-time job, the paperwork that is involved in the D process, an OM who is "gently" stalking me when I go out to run at night, with some GAL on the side.
I was not sure whether to start a new thread in the D forum, so I remain a newcomer.