"When we get back from vacation I am thinking I will bring up my boundaries again in regards to me not willing to be in an open relationship & see where he stands on that. Good idea?
I guess I am just still reeling from this weekends conversation & needing to refocus. He has gotten back a bit of control & seems to feel better about where he stands where I feel like I have lost a bit of something...."
Hope, I think it is less about bringing up your boundaries again and more about what you are going to do as your boundaries are not being respected. I don't think talking about it more than once achieves anything. It's not about where he stands on being in an open relationship, it's where you stand.
I think this may be why you are feeling you have lost something...
Ok, I can see that. So do I wait to see if he continues contact or ask him if he intends to stop all contact?
T: 14 M: 12 D: 9 S: 6 BD: 2/18/15 (H affair) Working on marriage: 3/12/15-6/11/15 Broken Trust (my error): 6/11/15 H ring off: 7/6/15; Comm w/ OW confirmed 7/13/15 H wants to work on fixing things: 7/21/15
