Because you love him, and he's also very adept at playing on your emotions and turning himself into the victim here. I thought you did just fine, and it's appropriate considering where things stand that you are taking this ML stance based on your HEAD and not just your HEART.
Starsky
Yes, he is very good at manipulating me, I feel. Ugh.
T: 14 M: 12 D: 9 S: 6 BD: 2/18/15 (H affair) Working on marriage: 3/12/15-6/11/15 Broken Trust (my error): 6/11/15 H ring off: 7/6/15; Comm w/ OW confirmed 7/13/15 H wants to work on fixing things: 7/21/15