Heading toward affair- what to do?

[Train]

Yeah. Speaking of him turning himself into the victim ...

I'll admit that I haven't read you sitch with a fine-tooth comb, hope. But I'm unsettled by the dynamic I'm reading. He cheated on you and you have proof of that, right? Your H continues to deflect blame. And you seem to continue accepting (too much of) it.

Can you remind me what this situation is that he keeps referring to when he blames YOU? You seem to be apologizing for it, but I must have missed exactly what you did that he says hurt him so bad.