I think everyone hits a wall at some point. It has taken me a LONG time to get here...I'm sure I drove some of the vets here that were working with me to drink....In a way it's been hard because my W and I get along so well 95% of the time; it's not like she up and moved out, or continued in an active A.
Despite the seeming improvement a LOT is missing from our marriage that we both think is important. Before I was trying to get her to see that we still fit together. Now I'm trying to figure out if she fits with MY life. That's an important paradigm shift, and took a lot of my fear away.
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Ex Rzrback Me 43 Her 44 D11, D15 T21, M19 BD 9/9/2014 Piecing
Sometimes if you want to see a change for the better, you have to take things into your own hands - Clint Eastwood
