I am trying on going dark. But my wife kept calling and texting to see if I had changed bills over to my name only. Was it wrong of me not to answer? She called like 10 times in an hour and was mad I wasn't answering. I finally texted her back. But then we ended up re-hashing why we are in the position we are in. She is really pushing me getting bills put over to my name. Even though we are not divorced. She just filed. She says she is a broken woman because of me. All this is putting me in a financial bind. She makes like 3 times as much as me. And she is pushing the bills onto me.