Day one of my kids being back. All hell has broken loose apparently. Asked W to please retell boundaries and expectations to them. She was complaining instantly that they dont respect her, or her wishes, or her expectations. I said I know you have probably told them a million times, tell them clearly what you want, what you expect, and how you wish to he treated.
Realizing after the great week I thought it had, there is more to the story than just me. W told me I do very nice things, and I am not terrible, I'll take it, after being told I fing hate you, which she does not remember.
It seems eh3 is still harboring resentment towards the teens, lik3 it is more of the same b3havior with them.
No problems betw33n me and her at this time, still no talk about our pending divorce, still ways she wants to move out.
W says she is not wanting to have to be accountable to anyone, still sounds like she is rebelling.
Anyone have any ideas on how proceed with issues that arent being caused by me? Lol
I am handling my kids, and leading more, asked them to stay out of her way, respect her wishes, treat her with respect, and be polite.
Me:35 W:37; S17 D15 D15 D1 D1 M:9 years T:11 BD 5/2/15 W moved out with her D15 our D1 D1 6/15/16 W filed for divorce 6/19/15 W moved back in 7/11/15