Hey Barb, at least you get bucks out of it...hopefully... all I've gotten so far is one new Flickr follower lol. BA, most of these women I've noticed are still online as much or more after they ditch me...but I do enjoy reading profiles and getting those "gems" lol. I really do think that some of these people are just using online dating as a social media site...a place to chat when bored and or validate yourself. When someone says after a few days of nice chatting "Hey, why don't we grab a coffee" they run like the wind. But, as the bible says, wheat and tares grow together ...and get separated when harvested.