Fogg & Dwh, I didn't think I had expectations going into Friday's lunch with STBX but subconsciously, it seems like I did. Why else would I have been so impacted by her D and L talk later that afternoon? Just need to keep on my track and pull back a bit.
Journaling: Had a fantastic weekend with the kids. Saturday night had a sleepover with the kids at my best friend's house. I posted a picture of us making raspberry lemonade popsicles to Instagram. STBX commented, "You are the best."
The next day, I took the kids down to a children's museum, along with my buddy and his son. It's so exciting to see the kids learn and discover new things!
STBX called to talk with the kids for the first time on Sunday night. It was the normal exchange. The kids and I were upbeat, etc. STBX did go out of her way to ask what the kids and I did over the weekend. Again, she made no mention of her whereabouts, nor did I inquire. I simply said goodbye and wished her a good night.
On the legal front, I think I will stay on my present course. I was contemplating calling my L to ask about just moving forward on D but I will hold off on that approach for now. I have been procrastinating and haven't gathered up all the financial documents yet. I think I will do that tonight.
On Tuesday night, a friend invited me over to her house to hang out. Don't worry guys, her girlfriend will be there too. And on Wednesday, it will be good to get back to our trivia night after a few weeks off. Then, I have the kiddos from Thursday to Sunday.
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15