As the savings we had are now split into our own persoanl accounts whether I am funding the OM is unknown and cannot be determined.
I guess what I was trying to say was whether I should let her lead with the organisation of our joint finances until they are separated in time, or should I take control and make her work a bit more.
When it comes down to it I guess it's best to look inside a decide what I want to do and do it, not try to second guess how she might react. It's hard though as I have always been afraid of confrontation and disputes (part of the problem with the M) and so am concerned that I'll take the easy route rather than the right one.
- Nobody has ever learnt anything important from happiness and success; problems make us grow - Consult your plan, not your feelings - If you haven't set goals, how can you expect to achieve anything?
