Thanks I am sure and she had said if I only would have given her space in the beginning we wouldn't be here. Easier said than done when you are trying to fix your problems. I know you said she might be confused. I know for 6 months she was confused and not knowing what to do. But to me it seems she has her mind made up and is hell-bent on divorce. After all she has filed for it. And her only correspondence with me is wanting me to get my own accounts or separate our accounts and bills. What do you think about me moving out her furniture to my garage. She is planning on moving it to her apartment when she gets back. It might be easier for me to have it moved out there rather than have her and her "friends" dismantling stuff inside the house. So do I just concede and part ways with her.? I don't want that.