Thank you all for your beautiful wisdom. I keep rereading your posts and trying to reframe the narrative. This setback just really hit me hard but I know I will get through it. Unfortunately we can't speed the clock up or slow it down.

Thank you all again. I just can't express what a lifeline this forum has been for me over the past year.

Thanks for listening and for accepting and for truly knowing what it is to be trying to navigate your life as a LBS in the land of MLC. It is not something most people can't understand unless they have first hand experience.

Ok. No looking back for the next day or two. Just rereading your posts and looking ahead.


M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters
BD: 5/14
Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW
D Final 9/17

“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.”
― Maya Angelou