T,

I think its normal to still love and care for your W. I struggle with this as well, and feel as you do that no other women can compare right now. To me, it's just a sign that I not fully moving on yet.

However, as Sandi2 pointed out to me, you can't expect to just turn love off like its a faucet. Only time can help you with this. Detaching isn't about stopping loving or caring, it's about not letting W actions tear you up emotionally.

Originally Posted By: TLEE86
That maybe we should talk and figure out if we should file?

Curious however about all the "we" talk, what do YOU want?


Me:36 W:30
M:2.75 T:7
BD: 4/2015
ILYBNILWY: 5/2015
W Moved Out: 5/2015
W filed for D: 7/2015