Wonka, I wish I knew what was going on. But I really don't think she's doing this on purpose. It makes no sense. She's been and done a lot of things since May, much of it thoughtless and selfish, but none of it vindictive. If this is some kind of passive-aggressive or unconscious sort of hostility, it still doesn't make sense. I'm really baffled by it... which is why I actually wasn't angry, but certainly disappointed and hurt.

I think by leaving all the trash strewn about the garage floor and requiring her to do even more work in cleaning it up before moving out, she should get the message. It will be another week before the trash is taken up again, so she knows I will keep checking, and will likely assume I won't hesitate to dump the trash again if I find more thoughtlessness in there. I will not be there this week, so it's not at all my monkey or my circus.

Off to bed, and REALLY off the boards for now! Thanks, friends.

Me: 46 Her: 41
M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18
3/26 W and I meet OW
BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring
W goes to stay with OW 6/26
NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16
I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19