Matt777 Why... because I got caught up in the emotions of it all! I do not want to be the second best. I just do not know what to say when he initiates it. I have not talked to him much since we got home. He asked why i was limping around (my hip is killing me) i simply said my hip hurts. He has been in garage all night with his friend I have been in my room reading and kids watched a movie. He is still being the same! In fact I got pretty mad today when he told me he is not going to work thursday so he can go watch OW's kids show at fair. We are already behind on bill sby 150$ this month have not bought groceries or anything. I am so glad to see his responsibility remains no where around THIS family. I simply said "you know we really can not afford for you to not work thursday we are already behind!" he asked how we could make it when it was just me working and not him and now we both are we cant! I simply walked away but i really wanted to say because we are actually paying your mom for the house, we paid car insurance and licensing for the vehicles this month so an extra 800.00 went out! but Nope not worth a fight. I will not be able to reason with him he is in his own world right now where all that matters is the OW and their relationship. It is his reality! I am still trying to figure out how he can LOVE her so much and still have sex with me????? Any ideas on that????
