Sandi2 you are correct on so many different levels
All I know is what I am doing right now is not working
She has just been out clubbing the once so far and she asked a close male,friend to come along to keep the men away .. The chap that she asked to go with her and her friends is a close friend and we have both know him for many many years he is our children's god father and he and his wife are very happily married. She sees him as a brother and I do know this for sure.
With my actions I do not want to push her away or for her to go down the path way of selling our family hoe and buying 2 lesser properties
One of the things she told me that led to the breakup was Me not doing enough arround the house
But,as I say things are not working right now
Will post again in the morning,need to really think what it is I need to be doing right now
Many thanks Gary
Me:48 W 41 M:18 T:26 2 D 18 & 4 2 S 17 & 13 Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation D filed 06/17 Separate houses 10/17 D Final 29/12//17.