I thought you all might appreciate this. I was on amazon and I realized that since H and I share our account, he can see my browsing history. Which is all DB and DR and other self help books. Tons of them. So I cleared my history and did a bunch of searches on my hobbies and interests- workout dvds, hair care products, photography books and lenses. Not sure if H even will notice, but I don't need to leave a reminder for him of how hard I am working at self improvement and therefore appear desperate, would rather he notice me pursuing my interests. And in the meantime I bought some hair styling products so that is fun. Sometimes this feels like playing games, but I will think of it as managing my image.
