Things are in flux... he hasn't heard back from the OW as far as I can tell. He tried to talk again last night (late & half drunk). I did some validation & empathy. He didnt' like the empathy part... maybe I mispoke. He left.
Then today he said he was having second thoughts about quitting the ministry but just didn't want to be here (which is understandable)... at least he didn't say he wanted to go back to where we were...

Me: 42, H: 38
Married: 12 years (second M for me)
14D, 9D
2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC

At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?