Wife and OM went to a wedding Friday. Didn't go well for them. I picked her up Saturday and I was surprised.
Wife said that she realized at the wedding that things with the OM aren't possible. She has made a decision that she wants to come home. She feels like she needs to ease back in to a relationship with me. She's basically asked that I detach and give her time. I intend to do this, but I'm not sure about her intentions. She is still living with him.
At this point I think it is my best interest to continue with detaching and giving her space and do my best not to get in her head and figure out what she is doing. Either she's being straight with me and she does need space, or she is making it all up, but I should be detaching regardless.
Please advise!
M: 38 W: 37 T: 20 M: 19 Kids: Stepson?20, S19, S16, D12 BD: 02/19/2015 (She moved out) PA Confirmed: 02/22/2015 (She is now living with OM) Dazed and confused: 09/13/2015
